I’m wearing this eyeshadow, I’m wearing this full face of makeup, or at least what *I* consider a full face of makeup— for Myself.
I’m not wearing it because social media told me to.
I have a choice.
I have an option of whether or not I want to wear makeup.
Everyone seems to try to pinpoint what is “right” and what is “wrong” all the time, or they try to keep on everyone’s side to seem like they aren’t bias.
Now let me tell you, I care, I do. I care a lot about everyone I meet, what people think of me (semi-sometimes) because everyone feels this way, it’s just natural to care.
Everyone questions “am I good enough, is this winged liner even, do I even feel like wearing foundation today… no, but I’m going to wear it anyways because there’s this cute guy in my class and in order for me to work up the courage to even look at him I have to look inside my soul, find this confidence that’s buried somewhere, and LET IT FREE by wearing whatever make-up makes me feel damn GOOD on this day.”
Yes, that sentence was completely bombastic and slightly unnecessary.
But the key thing to remember out of what I just said is confidence.
Everyone has it, it’s fueled by different things. Me for instance, I do better at life in general when I feel like myself, when I feel good, whether that’s with make-up or without.
There used to be a time where I wore make-up because I felt like I had to. I felt naked without it, or I felt just completely not myself.
And sometimes I still do feel that way, but I’ve noticed the caring on that level has SUNK, let me tell you.
I went out in public, with no makeup, hadn’t washed my hair, I looked like I was going through a crisis slightly, because I kinda sort of was, and I took a smoothie to this guy that sort of liked me but I wanted to be clear we were just friends and I thought he was sweet.
SoooooOoOoooOOOOOO I went back in the house and immediately was asked “what, you went out like that?” and I said “yes, who cares? If he likes me anyways then he needs to see the real me, and accept me, right?”
*laughs at self *
ohhh my goddd
And then the other person just looked at me and smiled probably internally screaming “what happened to you?!?!?!”
But seriously, I’m sitting here telling you that you don’t have to do what everyone else is doing to feel good about yourself.
You don’t have to wear a full face of makeup; you don’t even have to wear any make-up.
And yes I know there are girls that exist who do both proudly and props to you, I am that person too—sometimes.
But the truth is, I just love makeup. And, I also just love rubbing my eyes.
Everyone stresses about being liked but it’s all about doing whatever you like— that will help you achieve this happiness and validation you’re searching for.
And if you’re really looking for likes, you need to be yourself. An original, not a copy of a neighbor or celebrity; you’ll be surprised how many positive responses you get when you yourself feel good about what you’re doing, wearing, and putting out into the world.
*P.S. I sort of want to film a video on this, do you have any thoughts on it? Am I missing anything or do you sort of relate to me at all? I’d love to hear. 🙂