Everything happens for a reason.
While I may not understand the reasoning behind some peoples choices or actions, I know what I am capable of and who I am as a person.
I am not lazy, I am not uptight to the point where if I get something wrong that I hide away, because making a mistake or having an assumption be made of me is simply another step into the direction of where I am meant to go.
The only way to battle someones accusations or negativity towards you is to progress in your own life.
Don’t look back, try to find answers in the moment– but if there is the case where you cannot find answers, know that this is sometimes unavoidable.
Not everyone will have an answer for you, nor will you be able to comprehend why one shuts you out of finding an answer.
But, remember, everything happens for a reason.
Normally when something negative, or a string of negative events occur, it is building up to other opportunities. It is up to you to accept the changes, and welcome the new moments.
The new experiences, whether it be love, a job, a person, or something simple like trying a new candy bar, are all good experiences.
Because they are changes, and people need changes in order to grow.
I know that there are moments where you want to do nothing and lay in your bed because the world has gotten you a little too down– but you aren’t meant to stay there forever.
You are meant to get back up, discover your stability, and keep treading forward because you aren’t meant to have it figured out nor are you meant to figure things out.
Sometimes things happen out of nowhere, and thats okay.
Sometimes there are good mistakes and happy accidents, believe it or not.